TB is right...in a way..I would hire help. However, I could do that now. I would just have to cut back on something else. I can't have it all. I don't want it all. I have to work for everything or I do not appreciate my blessings. My life has to be a struggle because that is what challenges me. I do not shy away from a challenge.

I would still shop at antique malls and Goodwill. I would cook my own meals. I would still clean my own toilets.
I have enough.

I am a world class enabler. That mindset would have to change and I doubt I can at this stage in my life.....I, like Frank and Bowser, would have long lost family members vying for my attention.

However, I am the only female here on the Zone. I am not the breadwinner.

With my husband now retired, it eliminates a lot of the money issues because we simply can't enable anymore. We have to make do. So do *they*.

I don't even want that *2 carat solitaire diamond ring anymore*.