How can a person reply to that without the reply belonging on "Flame"? How would one be able to explain that adults and self-actualized people choose whereas children and victims are made to do things? How would one try to explain that one's entire life has been predicated upon being misunderstood, overworked, and forced into their predicaments rather than having made choices along the way which led to their situation? How could one explain that our choice of words reveals our thinking, and not coincidentally.

They can't, so this discussion has to end. But that "he made me" do it is always a fun one to watch. No small thing.