Does one choose to be bi-sexual?
I am in the yes and no camp. I think there is a genetic factor at work in a large percentage of gay people but I have known gay people who believe that they made a conscious decision for the gay lifestyle.
I believe that the potential to be gay exists in most people. Some are so predisposed the issue is never in doubt, with others, they go both ways and probably eventually settle on one or the other.
I also think that a small percentage spend their lives on the wrong side of the fence.
In other words, like most things, it is more complicated that it looks