...and I am not taking the bait.

For what it is worth, I would not barb at you should someone back troll.

Never.

I remember when my not yet diagnosed bi polar daughter left in the middle of the night to be with a man she met online. In England. I remember a particular Zoner doing everything he could to help me locate her, on very little information. He sensed my despair.

Fanatic? One must dig deeper than what we think we see. Nothing is ever what it seems.

I have three brothers. My youngest is a Christian Conservative *fanatic*. He is my loyal, sensitive, loud, obnoxious at times man who would take a bullet for me. I have never seen anyone try harder than Kevin to be a better person. He loves unconditionally.

Brother number 2 is my Hippie Liberal. I have tried for several years to get him to feel safe enough to trust and open up with me. He chases his own demons. He just spent 6 months helping Brother 1 deal with his wife's brain cancer. She was cremated on Friday.
Hippie Liberal took her death very very hard. He told my husband she the most *Christ-Like* person he has ever known. That speaks volumes to her beauty. She was a Conservative Christian, who felt we all need to be accountable. So, I find that until we walk in someone else's shoes, we really don't know squat about anything but our own myopic world of self centeredness.