Funny how we have such different interpretations of the same text.
Why should that be? How can two individuals of similar background and interests have such totally contrasting views of the same experience?
Without getting bogged down in who is "right" or "wrong", can you explain that? That is the key, Tom, that is what really matters. Why should that be? If you can answer that, even metaphorically, you would be almost there.
Answering that question is precisely why you need to be here.
By the way, how is Ted working out for you, now that you know a bit more about him?