Discrimination
Everyone discriminates about who they have sex with. That doesn't mean they hate the people they don't want to have sex with. It doesn't mean they want to take their rights away or for them to die. I don't want to have sex with men, trans people, women I find unattractive for one reason or another ( a shitty personality can make an otherwise beautiful woman unattractive). But I am live and let live about sex for everyone who is a consentual adult.
As Tupac Shakur said, just because I don't want someone to eat at my table doesn't mean I want them to starve.