Why is she gone?
Dude, you drive drunk, fall asleep with burning cigarettes, you're ugly (that's "you're," not "your") and your mama dresses you funny (that's how "your" is used).
In point of fact, dude, you're a Category 5 loser. The only reason she was there in the first place is because it's her house.
(By the way, Jody, pop a little instruction bit on Geekspeak on how you get videos in here. Haven't mastered that yet.)