An odd coincidence, quite a chance occurrence. You almost defined the word with your post, but only almost.

The obvious sincerity removes any smarmy aspect all by itself. Nothing more is needed. And couple that with the clear and convincing demonstration of your ability to perceive and appreciate the concept and execution of such a complex post underscores that sincerity and your superb discernment.

We are to be congratulated. It is posts like these which will demonstrate to those less fortunate how to eliminate the "cow flop" which pervades so many threads and posts.

You have made it clear one need not be smarmy, sarcastic or condescending to make their point. Thanks for the kind words.

(I have to stop now. The keys are acting heavy, I'm having to pound the board. I think it's a bit thick.)