re: Boys give toys...
You are probably correct, Mary Anne, as to the "giving" - must confess I lack any knowledge there as to who gives what. But the two or three sites mentioned here as well as the one I described previously, asked for school supplies, clothes, hygiene products, etc. as well as toys. And they are all run by the "boys". It simply intrigued me as to why no girls - of course it could be happening and the word just hasn't gotten out yet.
Betsy