Forget Martyrdom..........
For that is the revenge of the powerless and the weak against their supposed aggressors.
>"How does one dismantle what a culture believes is "honorable" and desired by their God? ">
This could actually be applied to GWBush in his 3 "F's" speech.........faith, family and freedom. It could be viewed by an agnostic as a form of faith-inspired revenge upon the perpetrators of 9/11.
>"How can one deal with folks who are completely religiously indoctrinated to be imbecilic?">
Gee, I think you answered your own question.
It's more of a judgement than a question in the first place.