None taken.
Jody, you don't give me credit, though. I worked for 35 years very closely with families, nuclear and extended, and do know something about how various characteristics interact for a variety of outcomes.
I know you very, very well, and could write a detailed anonymous description which your family and friends would recognize immediately.
And by the way, you have the same clues about me, and could do the same about me had you spent the time doing what I did. There's no magic.
Transparency is one of the greatest virtues a person can have and offer. Our secrets, or supposed secrets, can, will and do kill us. And on some scales people are pretty much alike.