since I'm not gay, I wouldn't be walking with my wife and kids. Second of all, I would never carry a gun (although I know how to use one with deadly accuracy). However, if I had my bo with me, I wouldn't hesitate to crack open the terrorist's skull were he threatening me or anyone else and there was no other option. I had to reconcile my course of action (when threatened) many years ago when I began martial arts studies. Although, the first thing I was taught, was if you have the option, run like hell. That's what your legs were made for. I carry a cell phone and know how to dial 9-1-1.