I don't think anyone in that situation is "attacking" anyone else's marriage, saying they can't get married, or trying to interfere with other's lifestyle, values or practices.

So how is that "war"?

If I chewed tobacco, how would that be "war" upon someone else's non-chewing preference? Or ate Brussels Sprouts? Would that be "war" on folks who didn't eat the repulsive things?

Nope.

That is, by the way, in contrast to American Conservatives who DO try to legislate how others conduct their lives, without adhering to the same principles themselves.

Arf

See Gingrich, Haggard, Foley, Limbaugh, Bennet, et al.