Lindy, don't take it personally but
don't you ever dream about me! LOL
jokes apart, I really don't know if you can do anything with your perceptions. Just don't be scared by them.
You must love the TV series: Medium ;)
.. and if you dream of me, please include lots of happiness, a good amount of money too would help... let me think... endless success with no fame... and a harem... yup that would do just fine =)