I will never treat you as a sexual object
And your personality IS very nice.
However, actors put themselves out there in the limelight and I reserve the right to drool over them, the same way you guys drool over sexy chicks. If I met him in RL, I wouldn't drool, though, and embarrass myself and him. I'd be looking at his character and his personality, the things I value, would be very polite and compliment him on his work. I'd drool later. ;-)