Unfortunately you aren't in a position to understand the answer. In your world there is nothing except ego, which means fighting, domination, competition, having the biggest and best things. It's win or lose. And when you are there you can't imagine another world.

And there's a way of living in which the important matters are things like respect, trust, love, friendship. Things which must be offered to others before they can be experienced by the giver. If you want a friend, be a friend sort of thing.

And there's no chance you can understand that. You would think this is the highest and finest development of humanity. It's just the first stage.

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