Conscise cauterization of your demented diatribe...
Wrong. Wrong like it's your First, middle and surname.
One is a case of a group seeking inclusion into the institutions of a pluralistic civil society. (non-"white" americans, same sex couples)
The other is a case of a group trying to prevent another group from inclusion in the institutions of a pluralistic civil society. (KKK and Pro prop 8 fundies and nasties)
Couldn't be more polar opposite, in fact.
This is no doubt hard for an affluently sheltered tool to have more than a caricatured level of understanding about.