Pretty much how I feel
I know transgendered people. They don't want to stand out, they want to fit in, to not be noticed, to just be themselves. That's why I think drag is silly. It is performance. It is supposed to be shocking. There's no purpose to display it to children because it creates a wrong impression of transgendered people, one that will linger.
And while we are on it, I think that the Disney Princess Effect is just as dangerous for young people. Designed to sell products, it imposes expectations of manners and appearance that are unrealistic. And the stories are awful.