In relative peace,
By your numbers, the loss ratio of civilians to the occupying army is 25 - 1. That should tell you something, it fairly screams something besides the futility of civilians "attacking" an army.
If you can't see it, or if you can excuse it as just the way it goes, then there's no hope of your ever having a workable view of this situation.
There is no situation which is as black and white as this board seems to consider the Middle East.
Arf