Ed
It's come through clearly in your posts that this is personal for you, and that you're feeling pain over it. I want you to know you have my sympathy; and I want you to know that I think you're expressing how you feel with dignity and class.
There are murmurings that this could be decided sooner than next month. All things considered, I think it would be a mercy for both of you. Dragging this out any longer would only be cruel.
Regards,
--Robert
