Re: Jody, pause, take a deep breath and think.
[EDITED because I changed my mind about how I thought I felt} Nope....just sayin' it is all about 'personal best'. I had to learn it the hard way. Resentful? Then...definitely...and it will ALWAYS be a pet peeve. I am a Conservative after all.
How does one convey that drive, that stamina, the defeat...the pick yourself up again, to the young ones? We can't. We don't. They all have to learn it the way that will make a lasting impression. The hard way. However that translates.