Now, what if you had been a woman.
Would the fact that some man asked you if you were interested in sex been regarded as an indictment of every heterosexual male? Would you even be writing about it now?
The guy made an offer, you didn't accept it, and you both went your own ways.
I think we've all been approached by gays just as I suspect all women have been approached by men.
Tell me why when "no" is accepted as an answer it's worse for one than the other.