BSD's
Oh...that.
As much as I'd like to comment, it wouldn't be very lady like.
Your comments left me wondering what exactly "terrified" you about her.
Her ambition? Her independence?
Then I started thinking about myself and a couple of other independent and ambitious girlfriends of mine. There's always a struggle going on to survive. If a woman leans on a man, and expects him to support her; she loses her identity. If he should step away, she falls over. I have girlfriends who are subservient to men in all their relationships and I have girlfriends who are subservient to none. I would put myself in that last caregory after being let down in every relationship I've ever been in.
So to me, BSD's don't do it. BFH's do.
