I am an oxymoron
NOT to be mistaken for moron;)
I did not used to see myself as stoic either, Frank. 4 years ago my life turned upside down. Being the matriarch has taught me to garner that "stiff upper lip".
I have endured no more, no less than anyone on this board I am sure, but no one will *know* because I try to never let on. I will periphally speak of it...but in passing.
I do smile alot...and that is the great deceiver....a sour puss just won't do....besides it causes wrinkles.
Actually, I have perceived myself as a great big bore!..*yawn*