Awww, Bows, if you were with the right woman (and I do mean RIGHT), you'd want to go home every night! I've seen marriages like that where the man and woman loved each other so much that their greatest joy was being together and their worst fear being separated. Unfortunately, those marriages may be rare. But who knows? She could be just around the corner.
Now me? I've been divorced since 1974. I'm not sure I'd be that easy to live with. I need my own space. That said, when I
WAS married, my husband was the subject of much envy because his wife (me) didn't demand he answer to me. As long as he was courteous enough to call to say he wouldn't be home for awhile, I had no problem. Our divorce, of course, was due to his straying. But I still would not do anything differently. A man has to WANT to be with a woman so much he doesn't stray. It was his character defect, not mine. I choose to treat adults as adults. If I had wanted a Siamese twin, I would have had his glued to me. Ackkkk.
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