Dear, Bowser... picture this:

Your mother was dying and you tried your utmost best to see for her health and her grandchildren (oh, my first cousin...)... then she dies and you cannot find her grave site because against her wishes, she is buried SOMEWHERE ELSE, sooooo, her grandson has to pay someone in the neighborhood American dollars so that he can find out where she was buried.

Lo and behold she was found just in time before her sister passed away in the U.S. of A. before that you know what....

Just dandy.

Cuban-Americans do not, DO NOT hate Cubans, they hate that S.O.B. that has taken over that island.

PERIOD.