Not as long as we remain diametrically opposed.
Conservatives are chastised for exhibiting "black and white" thinking. Liberals are accused of being wishy-washy, not being able to make quick and nescessary decisions. One of our "star" members continuously brings up the black and white issue- from the far corner. Doesn't even see it.
The key, as mentioned in the piece, is "Judgment". If you can free yourself from judement, the world becomes a much easier place. It's not easy to do though. Some have refered this process as turning the mind feeble. The people that say this are entrenched in BW thinking. I think the trick would be to somehow step out of judgment and at the same time, retain your objectivity.
