No, I did not grab women when I was young
I didn't grab their ass. I didn't grab their pussy. I never for one second thought such behavior was anything even remotely resembling flattery.
My bravado and lewdness phase began in junior high, but didn't persist into high school. By then, it seemed absurd and laughable to me and most of the guys I called friend.
Yes, I was offended by Trump's pussy comment. It betrayed a man who treated people in the most vile way and was completely disingenuous about his relationships. It showed that he was more than willing to use his fame, wealth and power as a license to abuse people. And he didn't make the comment as a foolish youth, but as a foolish 50 year old.
And if he'd said "cunt," you'd be in here right now defending him.