ok, here's my problem...
I think everyone should be treated fairly. Everyone has rights. Everyone has feelings. Everyone is human. But my personal problem is trans people, especially male to female trans, give me the creeps. I wish they didn't but they just do. Gay people don't bother me at all, but I have a difficult time relating to someone who would do something that extreme to themselves. A number of other "types" of people also creep me out too, such as people with extremely poor person hygiene, dangerous looking homeless people and sexually aggressive very extremely overweight women, to name a few. Anyway, I agree with the OP, transgender discussion should be an adult topic only. Transgender surgeries should be age 25+ unless for medical reasons.