Oatmeal
OMG you made me laugh.
It's when the oatmeals' cold, you go for the eggs and bacon.
It's amazing what we go through as individuals, both as whay we hold as the ideal relationship and the reality of holding on to that ideal. Some get lucky. Some get fooled.
Some are still trying to figure it out.
And, as one of those going hungry in anticipation of the eggs and bacon, all I can say is that the menu has finally arrived......;~)