The most attractive thing a man can find in a woman...
...other than the obvious (looks, smarts, laughs, passion) and the human virtues (courage, loyalty, devotion, independence), the biggest turn-on is that she finds her man attractive and irresistable.
Guys, there's lots of great chicks out there, but if you find one who thinks you're God's gift to the world, she's a keeper!
Girls, I know what you're thinking, and the answer is no. Love comes later.