re: What's good for the goose...
>"Men can still LOVE a wife just as much but still want to sleep with other women. "
Right. I agree. Love won't be confined to a box, even with a piece of paper attached to it.
Ack, don't get me started.
Ladies, all you ever need to know about men you can find in Shere Hites' 700 page "The Hite report on Male Sexuality".
I will admit to being a romantic and wanting an exclusive relationship, but in my lifetime have been gravely disappointed, so I have formed alliances with the more honest of them, and most of these men are still my "friends."