You do good Bowz........
I wouldn't have the fortitude to deal with f**ked up people. It's an area like psychotherapy.
Most of the abusers have long buried pain and hopelessness that stems from something in their childhood. Usually. Something they keep hidden and don't want to admit to. Some want to punish themselves, and some like to remain the victim. Some hate and the hate is transferred to others or it destroys themselves.
Our society is getting sicker. The percentages are going up. You didn't see the problems we have today just a few decades ago.