Re: Somehow it ended up in the comment "trash bin."
Obviously, someone did this. I will be shocked if there isn't an audit trail that will reveal the doer.
I considered the post to be tasteless, and potentially hurtful. Consequently, Since the damage was done, it suited me for it to sit there like the turd in a punchbowl.
By deductive reasoning, we may find it was done by a friend of yours.