Re: I've noticed you've been a little edgy since your return.
There are obviously humorous posts or observations which a cadre of you folks have chosen to try to take in the worst possible light or even invent offenses. The "ugly" post was one where somehow you found a way to see that as insulting when it was a simple observation.
You have to admit, it's a popularity contest around here, and I've never tried to be popular. Years ago, in chemical dependency treatment, a counselor called me a "people pleaser". That didn't bother me until I realized that was the same as "ass kisser" and I decided to grow some balls and not behave that way.
Arf