When you realize that the many insecurities, peer pressures, social interactions and other situations which were responsible and made him the man he is today.

And spookier still is when one remembers one can't judge a book by it's cover. And that underneath the antisocial "statement" clothes may lie a decent kid who fell in with a wrong crowd, and has parents who are either not good role models, don't care or are not present at all.

Each soul is the byproduct of an infinite number of thoughts, actions and reactions to their environment...

..each soul, regardless of race or current intelligence is equal in their potential to change their current position and elevate themselves to the highest spectra of infinite understanding.

(granted it takes a lot of time - or no time at all depending upon your perspective...)

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