hi...Im the original poster of this message and Im pretty sure that there arent any loopholes...but if you read what some of these people wrote they make good points...though trust me, I understand better than anyone how you feel... If you at least live near your loved one count yourself lucky... My parents are moving me to georgia and he will still be in Florida...I wont be around him for around a year...Its going to really suck...well just wanted to say that Im here and understand..PS you'd think the parents would be more proud than worried or disapproving...after all instead of just going around having sex with anyone or even just that person we want to marry them. I guess we wont really understand though until we're in that situation...Well I must go...