re: I didn't see the word "demand" anywhere.
OK - so Demand was the wrong word - but he's not 'asking why not' he's saying 'I want this to happen' - that much is obvious. If he didnt want what he mentions to actually happen, if it was not what he wanted, then he wouldnt have mentioned the issue at all.
My point remains - what does or does not happen with someones remains is down to that persons family alone, and is the business of NO ONE else - and I find it quite sick that someone feels they should be making suggestions as to what is done with someone's remains, especially nearly 10 years after they passed away. It's just wrong in so many ways - and the wording I used was an expresion of the magnitude of my opinion in the matter. I find it sick and wrong.
Doug