AMEN
A LOT of women start planning their wedding at a VERY early age, even.
My daughter bought into that Cinderella farce. She keeps waiting for that 'passion' to happen....and is quite miserable in her marraige right now, as a result. I have *tried* to equate that Cinderella story to her and her expectations, but SHE ultimately has to figure it out herself. So many people are getting hurt in that process though....including herself.
I am too independant, and a realist. Having 3 brothers helped destroy that dream along time ago.