He should not be allowed the scholarship!!!!!! Emphatically!!
My gut says let him suffer the consequences of his actions.
The cousin is only 17... You can not see her scars...and I gather more than one participated?
God only knows what pressure she was under to forgive him.
I was molested at 7 by a 13 year old family member, and I was flat assed not believed...so in order to *get* along I shut my mouth. The molestation was not the issue. *Not being believed* was and it haunts me to this day...