Just cause its touchy feely don't mean it ain't true. Are you familiar with Anais Nin? She was part Cuban.

Here are some other snippets

"Anxiety is love's greatest killer.
It makes others feel as you might
when a drowning man holds on to you.
You want to save him, but you know he
will strangle you with his panic."

The Diary of Anais Nin,
volume 4, 1944-1947

"Rene Lalou is exuberant, forcible,loquacious, witty. He
was strongly attracted to me against his own wishes, for his great
equilibrium would move away from my darkness. But his physical exuberance
compelled him. For the first time I am aware of my power over the sane
man--slowly his flippancy and wit mellowed. I saw the crumbling of his
clarity,I saw the mounting of his emotionalism. By the end of the
evening he was Rene Lalou, the man who has Spanish blood in him."

Incest: from "A Journal of Love", the unexpurgated
diary of Anais Nin (1932-1934)