"Selected"
Well, according to some, men should have any say in matters of choice. Of course, they're the same ones who seem to believe that the only choice that matters is whether or not to have an abortion.
If my wife wants some clothes, I'll buy her anything. Just don't ask me to pick it out. Even after 20 years, the best I'll do is show her something and ask if she likes it. These ear rings were a first.