None of the above
Lindy, you are bright and inquisitive and open to new ideas. I value your participation here because through you I view things from a new angle, or that I never would have seen at all.
RL, in turn, brings a deep passion for science, logic and reason, and a very impressive background.
The fact that both you guys are human makes the occassional spat, if not inevitable, then at least not all that surprising. It won't change the fact that I consider you both required reading.
But since this is Flame, I suppose I have to add: the rest of you can kiss my pasty white butt.