Who cares?
Do I care if the house painter wonders why I want to paint my house when I pay him to paint it?
Does the clerk at McDonald's need to know why I order decaffeinated coffee, before she pours it?
Do I expect my internet service provider to debate whether or not I really use the service enough before they sign me up?
The opinions of military personnel are pretty much irrelevant outside the matters that involve them in doing their job.
But that's callous right? That's me being a 'heartless conservative.'
What did you expect?