re: We may never know the questions.
I always thought it would really be a hoot if the Crackers ever found out Cuban stereotypes about them were practically identical to theirs about us. By sheer luck, forced to be in a schizophrenic bicultural environment as a child with no preconceptions, I could see and compare both sides simultaneously and see that both were wrong. I can't claim to be free from prejudice, by it's very nature it is a disease difficult to self-diagnose. But I became quite adept at detecting it in others.