re: In real life...after that...
I love unrehearsed....spontaneous....putting the other person first. But reciprocation is a must. A mutual respect for each others' well being.
I believe I would enjoy online relationships...you never know what thoughts will prevail from day to day...which in turn leads conversations down so many paths.
I don't do drama...blatant confrontation.
I need *rules* established early .
I need to be heard...and questioned until understood.
All this plays into *romance* in RL for me.
Romance is trust.
