Re: No
"Discussion" where I come from is more than chatting. It is done with an intent of analysing a situation, seeing how it works, and trying to figure out solutions.
What I "tear up" is beloved delusions. I "tear up" lies that have become widely accepted as truth.
A "discussion" of the sort you like is willing to allow any pile of crap into it if it makes everyone feel better about their views. For example, the bit about emergency room "choices" based on social standing or wealth was a pile of crap, and I wasn't willing to let it just sit there and gather flies. Sorry.