There have always been hermits
They even write limricks about them. :)
There was an Outer Limits episode that portrayed the society that you seem to prefer. People lived in high security buildings supervised by AI. They worked from home on their computer, ordered food etc on the computer etc.
The AI that controlled the building saw the trend as so threatening to humans that he decided to shut down for the good of humanity. Bad drama, good message.
For your sake I hope you learn to appreciate the goodness in people as well as their flaws.