Let me see if I understand.
The Israelis are offering the Palestinians a "homeland", full sovereignity, and absolute peace in exchange for an end to the terror.
And these terrorists are blowing themselves up, leaving their families and killing themselves for the sheer joy of killing Jews.
In the process they are subverting the peace deal described above.
And by pointing out that the Palestinians have a legitimate grievance against the Israelis, as to the Israelis against the Palestinians, I have indicated somehow that I do not thing Israel has a right to exist.
If I saw it that way I'd see it your way.
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