I'm gonna be sorry for this...
I've been watching the bone-picking. It looks to me as if it's more about vocabulary and temper than it is about who is who's favorite.
The quarrel devolved to the point of a game of "gotcha last". I've been in those situations too, and when I let it get the better of me, it never improves my arguments.
You have made your points concerning the facts of the case. I understand you have a hot temper. Can you let your points stand on their own, with the understanding that sometimes the last word is not the best one?
